Help! My wife thinks I don't like her body because I "look" at other women, how do I reure my devotion?

My wife has self-esteem problems already and she thinks that I am undressing every women I look at. We have recently separated and I am trying to rekindle our love. She thinks I don't love her because I don't tell her she is beautiful every moment of the day. I am looking for ways to make her feel special and important in my life. She has made it clear that if she is to take me back I will have to put her on a pedastill, which she already is but doesn't see it. I am going through therapy and realize I need to change my ways but I would like to know what makes a women feel special and important? Any answers would help, thanks.