"Disrupted" adoptions? How can we stop things like this?

we're adopted we have no rights in any country. give us rights and the stupid crap will go away. this story sounds like crap but if it is true then it just confirms that some things are just culturally inbread in us and no amount of moving us around is going to change that. some people still may never see the one thing that's sitting in front of their noses. just because we don't remember something doesn't mean that it hasn't profoundly effected our lives. weather it has to do with everyday life or being taken from the mother that gave birth to us.